“[Dialogue Therapy and Real Dialogue are] about… a state of openness and caring that relies on the powerfully articulated three C’s of commitment, constraint, and containment. We… honor and respect our differences with a commitment to them, a constraint in how we come to communicate with clarity and calm, and a containment of extremes of our emotions and impulses. We can view such a container of connection as built from the foundation of something called integration, the cultivation of differences while also creating connections. Integration gives rise to harmony; its blockage leads to chaos or rigidity.”